Success Stories
"Caroline, I really enjoyed your demonstrations at the 2008
Hunterdon County NJ Horse Expo. I think you do a fabulous
job, especially with the mental connection; so important.
You have a real gift and I truly believe that trainers such
as you, are also " horse psychics" communicating on a horse
level which is not possible for most horse people. If I can
promote your clinics I definitely will."
Pat Jasin,
Bucks County Equestrian Magazine
Clinic with Caroline Rider April 19 and 20, 2008
A group of dressage riders hosted Caroline for a 2 day ground
work clinic in Southern Maryland. We had a diversified group
of horses, most of them working well under saddle but with
areas that could use improvement, from spooking at strange
objects to not loading in the trailer.
Caroline's approach is to get the horse to focus on the handler,
using rein backs and engagement of the hind end. Some of the
horses had more trouble focusing on the handler than others
and it was wonderful to watch Caroline work with the horses
and determine what they needed and by the end of 30 to 40
minutes each horse would be standing calmly totally focused
on Caroline.
Her basic techniques to improve mental engagement under saddle
began with softening the horse to the bit. Each of us was
taught to massage the rein, creating a light feel/contact
for our horse's nose to follow. It also encouraged stretching
the horse's top line, specifically the center of the neck.
Center of the neck was the goal since so many horse's are
taught to bend at the pole, however they still maintain tension
through their top line, thus heavy on the forehand. The softening
and stretching exercises not only helped us achieve more mental
engagement from our horses, it helped to physically prepare
our horses to move more effectively off the hind end. Caroline
then asked us to begin backing our horses, all the while maintaining
softness through the hands and top line. This encouraged communication
through the bit and rein aids as well as helped break away
any brace or opposition our horses may have been expressing.
Of course there is much more to it but in a 2 day clinic you
start at the very beginning. Most of the handlers were able
to accomplish all three by the end of the first day.
On the second day of the clinic, a tarp was laid down in the
arena, which of course set all of the horses back. But the
same techniques were applied from the day before and by the
end of each lesson, the horses all walked calmly across the
tarp. It was really lovely to see.
Another clinic is planned in a few months and we are all looking
forward to it!!
Mardee Rochelle, clinic host
"I first met Caroline at a Horse expo where she was doing
a demo with her horses. I had been working with Natural Horsemanship
but never felt I was getting very far. I called Caroline and
explained how my 10 yr. old son and I had great fear issues
do to some horse related accidents. I had gone out and purchased
a pony for him that I thought would be safer than the one
we had. The pony we purchased was great but had fear issues
of his own and would shut down and go into a blank stare.
Caroline took both of my ponies home for a 30 day program
and then my son and I went to her camp to learn along with
the ponies.The ponies had changed in so many ways. Dots was
now more responsive to us. He was comfortable in his own skin
now and not so fearful. The more tools Caroline gave to Matthew
the more confident I saw my son get. Right there before my
eyes I watched a beautiful relationship between My son and
his pony. I can't thank Caroline enough. She is not only gifted
with horses but with people as well.
My own camp experience was with a 4 yr old Chincoteague Pony
named Spirit. I was so unsure of myself and of her. Caroline
spent the 30 days with her and then it was my turn. I had
no confidence in this pony or myself. My riding ability was
not great and I always rode with fear. Caroline watched me
struggle within myself. I always try to keep things calm and
quiet but this pony would test me the whole way. Caroline
pushed me and encouraged me to go out of my comfort zone.
She taught me to be there for my horse. I had a break through
at camp that week. I now ride with more confidence and my
son and I are having fun with our horses. I now go on trail
rides with friends and love just riding and playing with my
horse.
Thank you Caroline for the encouragement you have given me,
the hugs when I needed one and the new relationship I now
have with all my horses. I look forward to coming back to
camp and building on what I have already learned.
Shannon and Matthew Lindsay
Chincoteague, VA
"For us, Natural Horsemanship has been a philosophy for human
spiritual growth and living life beyond the obvious through
the development of a deep bond with another species... the
horse! Caroline definitely stands out from the crowd in her
ability to 'open those doors' for people and their horses
to experience a true horse/human bond. She has made it possible
for us to over come our 'predator' re-actions and advance
toward positive and considerate actions that not only allow
our horses to focus and think, but also teach those horses
how to find that 'quiet place of the mind' for themselves.
And, being able to guide our horses through frightening or
stressful situations is likely the most critical step for
building genuine safety into a riding program... and goes
well beyond the typical 'one-rein stop' instruction that most
NH programs teach.
For us, natural horsemanship has been an investment not only
of time (months to years with each horse), but of heart as
well. We cannot thank Caroline enough for her ability to bring
an empathy for each horse's emotional and psychological needs
to her teaching that literally transforms these 'fight or
flight' prey animals into willing, cooperative, and HAPPY
partners -- where both horse and person learn to sense and
feel and respect the 'inner being' in the other. Because of
Caroline, 'riding with the mind' is no longer simply an ideal,
but now a reality attainable as long as we are willing to
listen, observe, practice, show patience, and spend the time
to learn.
Thanks, Caroline, for making a positive difference in the
relationship we have with our horses!"
KC and Jeremy Seaford, DE
"My horses, my seven year old daughter and I have had
the privilege of working with Caroline for about 6 months.
The progress we all have made is incredible. Caroline is a
gifted teacher who knows when to safely push both student
and horse. Her greatest asset is her ability to read a horse
and its behavior and know where to go next. She has taught
me the importance of taking the time it takes and not to rush
through anything. I am a much more confident horse handler
and the best part of all is how confident my young horses
are becoming."
Sue Hahn
Green Gate Farm
Princess Anne, Maryland
"When I acquired my 8 year old quarter horse gelding Poco
he was anxious and fearful. He would hide behind other horses
in his field and would not allow me to catch him. I could
succeed in catching him only through trickery such as shaking
a can with some feed in it. In the short time that I had had
him, he refused to travel in a straight line, would buck at
times while I rode him, refuse to pass through water, refused
to be cross-tied, declined to pick up his feet, would try
to bite when tightening the girth, just to name a few of his
behavioral shortcomings."
Caroline has been working with Poco and me for the past four
months. During this time she has shown great patience as I
struggled to learn the very untraditional (for me) Natural
Horsemanship techniques. At times, Caroline actually had to
stand behind me with her hands on mine and move my hands as
if I were a marionette to help me understand. Since I am age
challenged at 63 with an age-appropriate reaction time, her
creative interventions were extremely helpful to me. With
her "muscles-have-memory" approach I eventually got it right,
slower perhaps, but "passively persisting in the proper position."
It is so exciting for me to look back at all Poco and I have
accomplished in these past four months. He comes to me when
I enter the field. He passes through gates one step at a time,
if I ask, all off lead! All the above-mentioned resistances
no longer exist. He was terribly head shy when he first came
to my barn and recently he allowed me to clip his ears while
he was at liberty. I might add that those clippers were old
and noisy!
Now that he has become a safe horse for me, we continue to
refine his movements while under saddle. Both Poco and I are
more confident. I love it when people come to watch Poco join
up with me in the field. Little do they know what he was like
just a short time ago. Thank you, Caroline!
Tina Boyd
Davidsonville, MD
"I just want to thank Caroline for helping me with my relationship
with my retired Thoroughbred, King. When I got King, he was
a Stallion, right off the track & quite a handful ( my first
horse ). I had been studying Parelli for some time, which helped
me alot but it wasn't til I met & had the clinic with Caroline
that I was able to put it all together. I needed the one on
one help that she provided & also, it was great being in a group
setting with like minded horse people. I LOVE Caroline's sincere
enthusiasm for the horses & compassion as well. King & I have
had quite a journey together so far, all without fear & intimidation
.............. we've taken as long as it takes. What a spiritual
journey, this is. Caroline's training has filled in the gaps
that I needed filled in. I look forward to more..............."
Sincerely,
Janet Anderson & King
Spain New Jersey
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